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I truly would not have made it without Him.RaleneCreateshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11797113556927389937noreply@blogger.comBlogger49125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5909383040098918349.post-39865897978871345632015-04-13T03:56:00.001-05:002015-04-13T04:40:03.361-05:00Your Story Heals<div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><div class="separator" style="text-align: start; clear: both;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjdXq9MJXy7ECFfghOZac5qOvwgoEU9qi6z5CWs2rRHFnQz_GwSkLbewXv57TJht3AspSBsyLaow7vSXA24y4A8ZW2Jt06Nah4sGibQtiKw8fYz3sktrXqmafW6OwcHhX0EJ8HBchVTWSN0/s640/blogger-image--613321329.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjdXq9MJXy7ECFfghOZac5qOvwgoEU9qi6z5CWs2rRHFnQz_GwSkLbewXv57TJht3AspSBsyLaow7vSXA24y4A8ZW2Jt06Nah4sGibQtiKw8fYz3sktrXqmafW6OwcHhX0EJ8HBchVTWSN0/s640/blogger-image--613321329.jpg"></a></div><br></div><div style="text-align: start;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div></div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto;">I believe that God gave each of us a story to be a testimony in order to help someone else. We have not been allowed to go through sufferering without a purpose. It is for our own personal growth as well as the growth of others. I was a firm believer that if I live a good life that would be enough to be an example to others but I began to learn the healing power of sharing my story, firsthand. </span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto;"><br></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto;">I admit this was not something that came easy to me as I never desired others to empathize with my pain but I began to notice it helped me heal through some of the most difficult experiences, when I shared my story. Initially, while suffering, I began to share with those close to me and their lack of understanding caused me more pain than the current suffering. Amazingly, while teaching Scrapbooking, I began sharing small pieces of my story in my own brand of Rae Of SonShine. It is my method of sharing a painful story and authentically demonstrating with joy, peace, and delight the goodness of Christ in the midst of my pain. This came about gradually as I taught others how to create "All About Me" albums that told their story. I learned that no one could tell my story better than me so I stepped from behind the camera and began to focus on me. Doing so, even when I wasn't happy with my body (another story, another day) I found the beauty in me. Teaching this method of Scrapbooking and journaling your story was the first step to helping others heal through their story. I too was healing in the process. </span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto;"><br></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto;">After many years of teaching and sharing, it was revealed to me that not everyone is going to understand your journey but there are many that do understand it. Those that understood were the ones that God had strategically placed in my life for me to share and even grow from. Becoming an author came from sharing the story. I remember my friend who saw a book in me before I did, yet continually encouraged me to tell the story. Prayerfully, I worried who wanted to hear my story. God's response "tell it anyway." I admit I have not published the full story yet but my book </span><font color="#000000"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><a href="http://www.forhimministry.org/books" target="_blank">As I Encourage You, I Encourage Myself</a>! shares more than I ever imagined sharing. </span></font></div><div class="MsoNormal"><font color="#000000"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></font></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto;">As a public speaker, I transparently share my story as I have learned that there is someone out there that my story gives them hope. We never know who's listening or needs to hear our story. I read on PsychologyToday, "</span><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Every time you tell your story and someone else who cares bears witness to it, you turn off the body’s stress responses, flipping off toxic stress hormones like cortisol and epinephrine and flipping on relaxation responses that release healing hormones like oxytocin, dopamine, nitric oxide, and endorphins." </span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">There's healing in your story for you, as well as others. </span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br></div></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto;">No matter what business you pursue, find a way to incorporate your beautiful story. God gave it to you for a purpose. 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There is not a day I am not in pain some days are greater than others but I have learned to press on in spite of pain, in spite of problems, in spite of panic. I have learned that peace, purpose and potential is on the other side giving me something to press on for with joy. <br><br>I am reminded of Paul in the Book of Philippians who was experiencing a great deal of panic, problems and pains at the hands of others but specifically in the name of Christ. He desired to encourage the saints at Philippi on how to live a life pleasing to God despite the things we go through. He opens chapter 3 with "rejoice in the Lord!" His focus is joy in the Lord will help us make it through. Our joy will not come from material wealth, as this will pass away. Our joy will not come from idolizing others as man will let you down. It will not come from the many titles you carry because the greatest title is "chosen." He continues by providing examples of how to find that joy. I rejoice when he says, "</span>I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus." (Philippians 3:14 NASB) He identifies that there's joy in pressing.<span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br><br></span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">So, how do you experience joy in pressing?</span></div><div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst" style="text-indent: -0.25in;"></div><ol><li style="text-indent: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="text-indent: -0.25in;"><b>There is joy in maturing</b> – I often hear people say "I am not perfect." This is true as no matter how good we are we won't be perfect until, as Christians, we see Jesus face-to-face. In the bible, the word perfect means "mature, </span>complete, bring to an end, finish, accomplish." I love the word mature as each day we are maturing getting more and more like Christ and we should find joy in this maturity by striving to living a life pleasing to God. No, you're not perfect yet, but you are maturing and growing to perfection, daily!</span></li><li style="text-indent: 0px;"><span style="text-indent: -0.25in; -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><b>There is joy is forgetting </b> – We all have a past but our past does not define us! Our past is only a tool to be used to teach us not hold us back. Paul tells us: </span>Brethren, I do not regard myself as having laid hold of it yet; but one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and reaching forward to what lies ahead, (Philippians 3:13 NASB). He is speaking of perfection. He confesses he's not there yet but he forgets those things behind him to reach the things in front of him. My pastor says, "we can't move forward while looking backwards." Have you tried walking full steam ahead while your head is turned backwards? It's virtually impossible. We have to learn to let go of our past. Forget what you couldn't do last year! Forget what people said about you! Forget about the mistakes you have made! The joy in forgetting is it allows you to see the dream and vision fully. </li><li style="text-indent: 0px;"><span style="text-indent: -0.25in; -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><b>There is joy in pressing </b> - Yes, we may experience pain! Yes, there may be problems along the way! Yes, it may not feel comfortable and we panic but imagine for a moment what you are missing out on. There is an ultimate goal that each of us must keep in perspective. Mine is ultimately please God. I cannot do this if I succumb to pain or the things going on around me. The joy in pressing is that pleasing God brings us joy. (Art of Reciprocity). Yesterday in pain, I spent the day working my business side by side with my daughter. Watching her shine as she shared her business with others was worth the pain of getting out of bed and making the two hour drive. I share this because sometimes we never know what we are missing until we get up and keep pressing. Don't miss the mark of the higher calling! Keep pressing! There's joy in them there hills!</span></li></ol><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto;">Remember the joy of the Lord is our Strength! Even when we are tired He provides us the joy to keep pressing! </span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">I encourage you to keep pressing in all you do knowing that there's joy! 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Wouldn't it be amazing to have someone you did business with come back forever instead of purchasing from you just once? Imagine, you are a coach and you delivered a one time service but did not engage in reciprocity. The next time the individual needed a coach they hired someone else. It probably is not because you did not provide good service but you failed to build the relationship as a give-take-give. This can be applied to any type of business as well as in life.</div>
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<span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">While training to become a Christian Counselor, the instructor focused two entire sessions on fear because it is the root of most people problems even when they do not want to admit it or cannot place their finger on it. FEAR can be defined as False Evidence Appearing Real. I love this definition as it epitomize the essence of fear to me because it is those things within our mind that appear so real and control our reality yet are not factual. </span></div>
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<li><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); text-indent: -0.25in;"><b>Reignite your passion </b></span><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif; text-indent: -0.25in;">- Find that fun thing to do and fear cannot stop you from being you. I know you will laugh but while homeless, I danced! I took dancing lessons for free (find them in your community) and danced. I learned Salsa, Tango, Ballroom, Tap and more. I had the time of my life. I frequently quote from my book <i><b>Dancing in the Rain produces His Promises</b></i>! Yes, I was experiencing the most difficult time of my life but found out I could dance and enjoy life. Reignite your passion. It's burning inside you! FEAR has no POWER! </span></li>
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<span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">When life hands you lemons, make lemonade. That is done by not by being afraid to "do-over" and get that fresh start whether it's to overcome obstacles, start a new business, write a book, change your career, or embrace a new relationship. </span></div>
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<li style="text-indent: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); text-indent: -0.25in;"><b>Acknowledge your Gifts</b> – You have been endowed with an enormous amount of gifts. When we are younger we focus on that one gift that will make us a great deal of money but often we need to change our focus and the gifts that God has given us that enriches not only ourselves but others. Notice that I keep saying gifts in the plural sense as we are not confined to one gift but numerous gifts. Recognize the various things that you do well and embrace the tasks that you can do when your do-over come. I have always been amazing with numbers and when I had to surrender my position as a software engineer it was very easy for me to build a stay at home career around income taxes and accounting. I love helping others and have fully embraced my gift of encouragement to become a life coach. Acknowledge your gifts and be be whatever you desire to be!</span></li>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I have experienced chronic pain and sickness my entire life.
I recall as a little girl in kindergarten visiting the nurse’s office doubled
over in pain but because I did not have a fever or visible signs of distress, I
was dismissed. This pattern followed me into my adulthood until I collapsed.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">My mother was a beautiful woman who took great care of her
family and those around her while silently suffering with diabetes. My youth
was marked with incidents of her debilitating silent strokes yet I watch her
continue to work, care for home, church, loved ones in the midst of her own
personal struggles.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">In writing my family history in my book, "<a href="http://www.forhimministry.org/books" target="_blank">Connected by Grace</a>," I
learned that my grandmother, my mom’s mother, suffered a fatal stroke at the
age of 42. She is remembered for the love she showed for her 7 children,
husband, and others. Her children loving describe her as one who suffered in
silence and yet she died young.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">This past couple of weeks, as I watched my daughter suffer
through health issues, wishing I could take away her pain, I realized that her
problems, pain, and panic mimic my own and, generationally, my mother’s and my
grandmother’s. It has even been seen in my beautiful five year old
granddaughter. We often see the pattern and wish that we can break the cycle. I
never desired to endure what my mother endured even though I recognized how she
overcame her own adversities. I can only imagine that my mother felt the same
about her mother, as my grandmother felt for her mother before her. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">How do we propel ourselves from the generational pattern to
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<li><span style="font-family: inherit; text-indent: -0.25in;"><b>Acknowledge the Problem</b> (Houston, we have a
problem!) – Recognizing that a problem exists is generally the hardest thing
for many of us. We must know that we have problem but our problems do not have
us. Problems do not define us. It is ok to realize you have depression but
depression does not define you. When you acknowledge the problem you can begin
to seek assistance from others to live a productive life. Hiding from the
problem keeps you stuck in bondage to it.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: inherit; text-indent: -0.25in;"><b>Positively embrace the Transformation</b> – There is
help for most situation even cancer. A positive attitude changes our outlook on
life. The potential to live a fulfilled life even while facing terminal illness
is based upon attitude. While participating in my first cancer walk as a
survivor in 2012, I chatted with other survivors about their success through
radiation, chemotherapy, and surgeries. The common factor among most was
attitude! Change your focus from your problem to your potential.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: inherit; text-indent: -0.25in;"><b>Allow Patterns to Teach</b>- Those before us endured
much yet have taught us what to do and not do. We can learn from their lessons
by choosing wisely to embrace the positive from their lives. We have the
advantage of looking at our loved ones lives on a movie screen, seeing the beauty
that made them who they are. Open-mindedly, embrace their struggles of
endurance! You can do it too.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: inherit; text-indent: -0.25in;"><b>Revel in the Differences</b> – Be excited that
despite the problems that may appear to be handed down, you have options available
that were not available generations ago. Doctors, medication, counseling,
12-Step programs, medical studies and so much more are yours! This makes you
able to… Choose differently. Live differently. Grow differently. Be different!</span></li>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Generational patterns do not have to be curses. They are
sequence of evidences of behaviors that is repeated until someone says stop!
You have not been cursed! Recognize that a pattern exists, embrace it for
change as it teaches, and know what makes you different as it propels you to
your greatest potential!</span></div>
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<i>"I used to think the worst thing in life was to end up all alone, it's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people that make you feel all alone."</i></div>
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I, as an Encourager and Empowerment Speaker, often share, that we cannot control people but we can control how people make us feel. This is true especially as it empowers us to press forward despite our feelings. Our feelings are God given emotions used to protect and guide us! I call it my Jimny Cricket as it warns me of danger ahead. I hear him sitting on my shoulder telling me to "watch out!" It is how we respond that's important. </div>
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As motivational speaker, minister, encouragement author, mother and grandmother, I periodically have those days where I ask, "Who encourages the encourager?" </div>
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Those days that if we hear our name called one more time! If our phone rings one more time! If one more problem needs to be solved, we may runaway! </div>
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Despite those moments, we must choose to keep sparkling and shining, not just for others but for ourselves. Each morning when I wake up, I am blessed to see another day and realize that is the purpose for my sparkle. I sparkle to embrace each day with vibrancy, joy, and sunshine. So when someone or something comes to steal me of my sparkle, I take myself back to that moment when I woke up and refocus! I answer my original question, "I must encourage, the encourager!" Talking to myself, I readjust, realign, and recapitulate! My purpose! </div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Recently, our brief
study of evolution in my Man, Sin and Salvation Course intrigued me despite my
firm belief in creation based on biblical teaching. I recall Dr. Dean Haywood’s lecture where he
taught us the evolution theory that “several
billion years ago, chemicals in the sea, acted on by sunlight and cosmic
energy, formed themselves by chance into one or more single-celled organisms,
which have since developed through beneficial mutations and natural selection
into all living plants, animals, and people.<b>” </b>I also listened closely as he shared with
the class about those that believe that God directed the process to create
the world that which is the process of naturalistic evolution. If
I am honest, even though I was intrigued, I glossed over this part of the information
because if it was not my belief system why must I know it? I understood it yet
did not get too deep into it.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">As I sat in the movie theater ready to be “entertained” this weekend,
everything I learned in class came back to me and I realized what God was
saying to me. Evangelism! How can we share the faith with non-believers if we
are unaware of their beliefs? The movie, <i>God’s Not Dead</i>, chronicled
the journey of a young college student who challenged his Philosophy professor
who required all students in his class to write that “God is Dead” on a paper
at the beginning of the class. This student, as a Christian, could not write
such a thing and stood up for what he believed at a great cost. In the process, he
evangelized many souls that did not know God including the atheist professor. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">The young student was challenged to address
the evolution theory, the same ones that I learned in class, and refute it not
just with biblical truth but moral and ethical findings. He even used the words
of trusted scientists and philosophers that the professor and his peers could
relate to. Often when evangelizing we must meet people where they are in order
to reach them, as God meets people where they are. People do not believe for
many reason therefore as believers we must have an understanding first of God’s
Word, the fall of man and finally what they believe in and do not believe in. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">After the movie, I came home and immediately downloaded the book with a thirst for more. It is not like the
movie which pleased me because my thirst was centered on the message God
had for His people. By understanding what others thinks we can evangelize and win
more souls for Christ which is what we are all called to do. We spend a great
deal of time doing other things yet this is the great commission. Paul tells us
in Romans 12:2 (NLT), “Don't copy the behavior and customs of this world, but
let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you
will learn to know God's will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect.”
Allow God to transform those as they learn who God is. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">The books official website states, “<i>God’s Not Dead</i> serves as a guide to
understanding the arguments of new atheists such as Dawkins, Harris, Krauss and
Mahrer, and an easily digestible reference to the teachings of scholars such as
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<span style="font-size: large;">I was transformed
and blessed by the movie <i>God’s Not Dead</i>.</span><o:p></o:p></div>
RaleneCreateshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11797113556927389937noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5909383040098918349.post-13399532671620606452014-03-05T06:46:00.001-06:002014-03-05T06:48:05.029-06:00Purpose Driven Life: Day Five<div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhghjLUtX4zmeoLszrbSlQmGlEtLGgQ5L9rfDyYqE85It2jI9EURxHmwiV9WNzW9kY9Vu-1Ap7SM6tnJE_GJw2F8JT_jGe1S7G2DysxrTIE0v6mUJcCOqYAiYSSi300b6KJBt_hWhF6h4cK/s640/blogger-image--1128474020.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhghjLUtX4zmeoLszrbSlQmGlEtLGgQ5L9rfDyYqE85It2jI9EURxHmwiV9WNzW9kY9Vu-1Ap7SM6tnJE_GJw2F8JT_jGe1S7G2DysxrTIE0v6mUJcCOqYAiYSSi300b6KJBt_hWhF6h4cK/s640/blogger-image--1128474020.jpg"></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">"God keeps his promise, and he will not allow you to be tested beyond your power to remain firm; at the time you are put to the test, he will give you the strength to endure it, and so provide you with a way out" 1 Corinthians 10:13 (TEV)</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Day Five of Purpose driven life blessed my soul. The point to ponder is Life is a test and a trust. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">What stood out the most about life being a test was that despite the numerous tests we may endure God has given us everything we need to pass the tests. No matter how painful the tests may seem at the time we can TRUST that through our faith in God we have the strength to endure. Wow. That mean we do not need to do any but rely on God! That should take weight off of us when we are worrying about if we are going to make it. The answer is already YES! He is just watch to see how you respond during the process. Learning to dance in the rain truly does produce joy in the sunshine!</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Life is a trust spoke personally to me because I trully believe to whom much is given much is required. We much learn to careful over a little before God can entrust more to us. It reminds me of when I was little and my parents bought me a camera. I wanted a fancy camera that did all the nice cool functions so I was disappointed when I got a simple plain jane camera. Look at the test there. God was watching me for gratitude but here I was being disappointed. The real lesson was that my parents sat me down to explain that as much as they desired to purchase the fancy camera I needed to demonstrate to them my ability to take care of the simple inexpensive camera before they entrusted me with the fancy one. The fancy camera came with greater responsibility. God handles the gifts that he entrusts to us the same way desiring us to be good stewards. The lesson shows the more God gives, the more responsible he expects us to be.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">As we change how we view life we can begin to become more fullfilled.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Points to ponder: Life is a test and a trust. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Verse to Remember: "Unless you are faithful in small matters, you won't be faithful in large ones." </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Luke 16:10a (NLT)</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">As I encourage you, I encourage myself. Be encouraged!</span></div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Check out our ministry page at <a href="http://facebook.com/ForHimMinistry">http://facebook.com/ForHimMinistry</a></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">And our new book at <a href="http://www.forhimministry.org/">www.ForHimMinistry.org</a></span></div></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div></div>RaleneCreateshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11797113556927389937noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5909383040098918349.post-79220943506912026422014-03-03T16:50:00.000-06:002014-03-03T16:50:07.416-06:00Purpose Driven Life<div>
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I am blessed to participate in the Facebook group <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/purposedrivenDIVAS/?ref=ts&fref=ts" target="_blank">Purpose Driven D.I.V.A.S.</a> Divine Intervention Victoriously Aspiring Sisters that represent the true Divine women of God. This group aligns with the goals and missions of <a href="http://www.forhimministry.org/" target="_blank">For Him Ministry</a> and <a href="http://www.powerfulwomenofgod.org/" target="_blank">Powerful Women of God</a> which God has called me to facilitate to empower women to be all that God has designed us to be through the guidance of the Holy Spirit.<br />
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Over the next 40 days, the group will be reading Rick Warren's The Purpose Driven Life. You may ask why 40 days, which is a great question as we know that as God prepares His people for their purpose He usually does it in 40 days. I have chosen to blog about my exploration as I pray it blesses all that's seeking their purpose in life or seeking direction. There is always that one thing we could all use a little clarity on. I pray that you are blessed on this blog journey. I invite you to join our group to follow along as well as join <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/purposedrivenDIVAS/?ref=ts&fref=ts" target="_blank">Purpose Driven D.I.V.A.S</a> on Facebook. Will you take the challenge?</div>
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These five driving forces have the ability to hold on to us and allow us to lose focus of our God given purpose in life. I recall a season of each of these forces and I strive daily to keep my eyes on God that I do not revisit these seasons again. </div>
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I remember a season when I worked diligently trying to acheive more and more financially believing that the more I had the happier my household would be. Actually this was far from the truth. Yes we tell ourselves this. If I had this I would be happy. If God would bless me with a husband I would be happy yet complain when we get him. If God would only allow me to get this house yet we do not care for it. Happiness is not tied to those things. Our joy comes from aligning ourselves with what God has for us. </div>
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Day one's lesson speaks of It not being about us. It is not! God will not force anything on you as He gives us free will to accept what He offers by divine revelation. As Jeremiah says "<span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">For I know the plans<span class="crossreference" style="font-weight: bold; vertical-align: top;" value="(<a href="#cen-NIV-19647A" title="See cross-reference A">A</a>)"></span> I have for you,” declares the <span class="small-caps" style="font-variant: small-caps;">Lord</span>, “plans to prosper<span class="crossreference" style="font-weight: bold; vertical-align: top;" value="(<a href="#cen-NIV-19647B" title="See cross-reference B">B</a>)"></span> you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."</span></div>
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God was revealing to me that when we refocus our lives on Him that our life purpose falls into place. Each morning about 5am, God wakes me with a word that I share on various social media groups as well as blog as directed by the Holy Spirit. Some mornings my musing takes an even deeper study of what God is saying as this mornings message was to me. I was lead to write this photo post:</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgEdJ57sX3J6c_-FM_wDLVX48LxB4UrmATZWALvKfZmKXTe8uRzFS2MqyxwwbQ7gsSC764N5NrzkVuUvN0YQKpiU1KlfzjYWfB2zy5WzMKhbeHxMxD7EUI2uCVpnbOayU-ZHv3jxYQNVLx2/s640/blogger-image-247356548.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgEdJ57sX3J6c_-FM_wDLVX48LxB4UrmATZWALvKfZmKXTe8uRzFS2MqyxwwbQ7gsSC764N5NrzkVuUvN0YQKpiU1KlfzjYWfB2zy5WzMKhbeHxMxD7EUI2uCVpnbOayU-ZHv3jxYQNVLx2/s640/blogger-image-247356548.jpg"></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div>I was not aware until I lied down to study Day one of the Purpose Driven Life at bedtime that the first words of the chapter would be "It's not about us." Wow! Is God truly speaking? I do not believe in coincidence. I believe that God's word always confirming itself. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Day one's lesson shows us that when we realize that our purpose is define by God and not centered around us our lives change. We do not have the power to change ourselves only God can. This will eliminate some of the frustration we experience in our lives when we feel helpless to change. It's not about us! Wow! Thank you God for loving us enough! Day one has blessed me even before I realized what it was about. Thanks for confirmation!</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div>RaleneCreateshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11797113556927389937noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5909383040098918349.post-820898576374483372014-03-01T09:23:00.001-06:002014-03-01T23:14:03.254-06:00Featured Article<div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgmCIvY6i3j_pGdjyH4gycxp9zYQ_zxzJEmc18yufQeFvGgiLHs_wZxsre4QOxP9Q_HWjd1cC1Rk5pPfsmwHzdR_aMl7nbn_f3amIAxpcm028blG6J7pzVzFbmIh3Z96v6bgykgozfCky5X/s640/blogger-image-1943734942.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgmCIvY6i3j_pGdjyH4gycxp9zYQ_zxzJEmc18yufQeFvGgiLHs_wZxsre4QOxP9Q_HWjd1cC1Rk5pPfsmwHzdR_aMl7nbn_f3amIAxpcm028blG6J7pzVzFbmIh3Z96v6bgykgozfCky5X/s640/blogger-image-1943734942.jpg"></a></div><br></span></div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div>I am so honored to be featured in Women's Voice Magazine!<br><br>CLICK LINK TO READ ARTICLE: <a class="_58cn" href="https://www.facebook.com/hashtag/womensvoicesmagazine?source=feed_text" data-ft="{"tn":"*N","type":104}" style="cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;"><span class="_58cl">#</span><span class="_58cm">WomensVoicesMagazine</span></a> </span><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">The Power To Heal Your Soul "AS I ENCOURAGE YOU, I ENCOURAGE MYSELF". </span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">In life we go through trials and tribulations on our journeys to peace and happiness. Sometimes on our journey of this narrow path our feet get weary, but we have to keep the hope alive and keep our faith. This faith helps us to stay and to be encouraged in this life. </span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">This next story is about a woman named Ralene F. Berry. She kept her faith, to stay and be encouraged throughout her various trials in life. She is the author of the book As I Encourage You, I Encourage Myself. Here is Rae’s story in her own words. ~Alonda London Columnist.<a href="http://www.facebook.com/l.php?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.womensvoicesmagazine.com%2F2014%2F03%2F01%2Fas-i-encourage-you-i-encourage-myself&h=wAQEZGXuB&enc=AZNK_9dyngfq7Id96TIXa3fVX9uT4akreR0SQ9jO4Jm08mqayMJzVRP0XJZOUN_xhz7VpON7TGR0Qy5WIf-ovqhjKvlie_i0ir52-Ht7_EdvEFKcduRsoCu4P4tnDEm2LSChiJQLLdZIyTHWWl9S7Zb6&s=1" target="_blank" rel="nofollow" style="cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;">http://www.womensvoicesmagazine.com/2014/03/01/as-i-encourage-you-i-encourage-myself</a></span></div>RaleneCreateshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11797113556927389937noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5909383040098918349.post-33534762918260530402014-03-01T08:01:00.001-06:002014-03-01T08:16:48.720-06:00It's Not About You!<div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6hPMBXl7pntPMeRGMqiaIQ5bmY1tHQi1JLC8GBd5CTmPboy2aHRf4-R_9bJzifNVwtDa0QqXGmBD4PbWEZ6o1DnWARaGVgjW9ZrDwsrVofhwvPW4b3MM73tzXxoA7RYSf5ZwG2cjvCsYq/s640/blogger-image--1654967675.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6hPMBXl7pntPMeRGMqiaIQ5bmY1tHQi1JLC8GBd5CTmPboy2aHRf4-R_9bJzifNVwtDa0QqXGmBD4PbWEZ6o1DnWARaGVgjW9ZrDwsrVofhwvPW4b3MM73tzXxoA7RYSf5ZwG2cjvCsYq/s640/blogger-image--1654967675.jpg"></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">In 2006, as I was separating from the love of my life, I had to learn my new identity. I was no longer Tim's wife and exclusively Timura's mother as she too was growing up. I needed to learn to focus on me for a change. This is very important especially for a person like me who is a giver and did not know how to take care of herself. God showed me I needed a season of self reflecting and learning boundaries in order for Him to prepare me for the calling He had kon my life. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">I recall a scrapbook I designed that blessed me. I encourage all to do the same. Visit www.MsRaesCustomDesigns.com for an example. If you are not a scrapbooker then write down and reflect on the items in an All About Me album. This book will allow you to truly see what you desire, like, dislike, crave, etc. You may choose to do it every so often as a Ebenezer Stone tool to see how far God has brought you. You will be amazed. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">This scrapbook helped me put in perspective my purpose but I never wanted to lose focus of my God given purpose! This was an All about Me album but I must remember IT'S NOT ABOUT ME! IT'S ABOUT HIM! Once I truly realized this the fulfillment of my life's destiny came into focus. When all that we do we recognize that it is for His glory, the manifestation of His glory unfolds in our lives. We have more joy, peace, and happiness despite our circumstances. Kevin Hall, Author of Aspire, says, "A life of significance is about serving those who need your gifts, your leadership, your purpose." </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;"><br></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;"> I believe Apostle Paul says it eloquently, "</span><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif; -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">So if there is any encouragement in Christ, any comfort from love, any participation in the Spirit, any affection and sympathy, complete my joy by being of the same mind, having the same love, being in full accord and of one mind. Do nothing from rivalry or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others. Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus." </span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif; -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif; -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">It's not about you! It's about bringing glory to our Father. Today, I encourage you in everything you do to excel that it glorify your Father in Heaven. When we change our motive and perspective, I promise you our lives changes. Don't forget as I encourage you I encourage myself! Be blessed.</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif; -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Check out our ministry page at http://facebook.com/ForHimMinistry</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"> And our new book at www.ForHimMinistry.org</span></div></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif; -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif; -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div>RaleneCreateshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11797113556927389937noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5909383040098918349.post-23152264140161038502014-02-24T08:09:00.001-06:002014-02-24T08:10:16.951-06:00Follow your Dreams<div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhGNgSeQjUco-VFYdBZmxnCcVqEUa1Y1u7xm5TbY94pTYPqZ3FjZ6e0cTe24_EOts1WzDlHum59vv46huBnUdE7ZzJXkcY0OO5uk8Bbw1HFFE9S4Uy0fr2q4kvqVIxBCYH5yoMCoGX71pFU/s640/blogger-image--2061313033.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhGNgSeQjUco-VFYdBZmxnCcVqEUa1Y1u7xm5TbY94pTYPqZ3FjZ6e0cTe24_EOts1WzDlHum59vv46huBnUdE7ZzJXkcY0OO5uk8Bbw1HFFE9S4Uy0fr2q4kvqVIxBCYH5yoMCoGX71pFU/s640/blogger-image--2061313033.jpg"></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Proverbs 29:18 shares with usthat "where there is no vision, the people perish." God has designed us all to lived a fullfilled a purposeful life on this side of heaven giving Him the glory. Salvation awards us eternal life but it also awards us an abundant life according to John 10:10. What does that look like for you? Is it a dream job, an excursion to an exotic location, completing that degree program, writing that book God placed inside of you, owning your own business, having a child, marrying or living as God desires? What ever it is you must envision it to conceive it or you will never receive it! </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">This Friday, I received a proof copy of my book, <i>As I Encourage You, I Encourage Myself</i>, and the reality of God's goodness hit me. It was not because of anything I had done except my belief in His promises that allowed this lifelong dream to become a reality. I had seen the book on Kindle and Nook but it was not until I had the physical book in my hand could I acknowledge the full manifestation of Gods glory working in my life. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">I challenge all who may reading this blog to follow your dreams. Do not allow the chatterbox of your negative thinking, the enemy, your friends, your family, your finances, or the worlds standards keep you from the promises God has for you! We truly can do all thing through Christ that gives us strength. Keep pressing towards the mark of the high calling in Christ Jesus! Not only am I a new Author but a publisher! But God! Never forget as I Encourage you, I Encourage myself! Be blessed! </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Books available on www.forhimministry.org</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Amazon.com</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">BarnesnNobles.com </div>RaleneCreateshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11797113556927389937noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5909383040098918349.post-23317440867518079822014-02-15T19:27:00.001-06:002014-02-15T19:30:06.768-06:00Upcoming Book Release March 1, 2014<div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj77PjGOlbHy1_Ll9m8mOBirNnJBvFOtKTaelw09QZCZNy4vJ0SAg30QqDxgkDnGRiXMmrzx0z0PKWVX0ZhApMTXVD8zQ-5hqFFXAV_MhuHgYrbqgMD7r75B7d-Qv_WmZDgIkkvv0fuIQyb/s640/blogger-image--919233537.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj77PjGOlbHy1_Ll9m8mOBirNnJBvFOtKTaelw09QZCZNy4vJ0SAg30QqDxgkDnGRiXMmrzx0z0PKWVX0ZhApMTXVD8zQ-5hqFFXAV_MhuHgYrbqgMD7r75B7d-Qv_WmZDgIkkvv0fuIQyb/s640/blogger-image--919233537.jpg"></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">I cannot begin to explain to you the feeling I have at the release of this book. As God has called me to encourage others through my own personal struggles, testimonies, and life experiences, I am learning daily that God truly can and will do the impossible. There is no challenge too big or no person too small. He kept lil oh me for a purpose. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">This books objective is to encourage you to be all God designed you to be in spite of circumstances and situations. It shows how you can continue to dance in the storm because there is sunshine tomorrow. Not only do I share parts of me but my goal is to use the work God is doing in my life to encourage all, believers and unbelievers, to never give up. Yes, it looks dark sometime, it even seems too difficult to bear, yet God is building our endurance and making us new creatures in Him. We can't lose hope. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">I invite you to join me for an online book party to celebrate what God is doing! Join the live event for cool giveaways and an opportunity to chat about the book. Sign up at https://m.facebook.com/events/250199621825598/?source=1</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Never forget <i>As I Encourage You, I Encourage Myself</i></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div>RaleneCreateshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11797113556927389937noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5909383040098918349.post-31015643872465483772014-02-09T00:08:00.001-06:002014-02-09T00:08:03.731-06:00Be who God Designed!<br><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh9nGG_gnfD6fq3gsRT4rfF3MYeoQ54672kg1r8_i4JXoYsd4y63faB964Is98zUGsxqtpaVWJY-Cnk-yMdPx-lCKClofgrAFU3BhbuYcwMBokqE16VQJy02RahTzGLQXPSIWBMuKXNTv4d/s640/blogger-image-1759960424.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh9nGG_gnfD6fq3gsRT4rfF3MYeoQ54672kg1r8_i4JXoYsd4y63faB964Is98zUGsxqtpaVWJY-Cnk-yMdPx-lCKClofgrAFU3BhbuYcwMBokqE16VQJy02RahTzGLQXPSIWBMuKXNTv4d/s640/blogger-image-1759960424.jpg"></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">These last few days has been phenomenal as I watch the very promises God has for me begin to manifest in my life. It is almost like an outer body experience watching it happen. It I was not feeling the physical impact of the work involved, I would say it was happening to someone else. It was only five years ago I was homeless, now in a few weeks I will be releasing my Christian book of encouragement, <i>As I Encourage You, I Encourage Myself.</i> </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">As I worked on final edits these last few days, I kept saying to myself how is this happening? As you encourage others to be what God designed them to be what would you tell them? It came down to four simple steps that I have been saying to myself.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">1) Stay focused</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">2) Stay prayerful</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">3) Stay obedient to God</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Finally, and most importantly, </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">4) allow God to do the rest!</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Its important to note that our strength lies in Him! Have faith that He will do the impossible. By living and walking in the spirit of God which this motto aligns with, I have begun to live the life God designed.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">This is an awesome journey that I would never trade. I am deeply encouraged as I encourage you to be who God designed! Be blessed.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Check out our ministry page at http://facebook.com/ForHimMinistry</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"> </div>RaleneCreateshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11797113556927389937noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5909383040098918349.post-91273549897041221222014-01-29T06:57:00.001-06:002014-01-29T07:13:31.090-06:00Still Cancer Free!<div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg2FIn8SvrjWfE4m_AnWAAD-AYP_s25saDiHwG7di7TKX3rT9EkxVnCtGnqAz67uEYdIrfThmcd-1fsVsf9iF992ZO1PcnZ8GX1UmmR9ax1m7-fL9zYewzdYBJVTHEnm_r5ggKNYe0A61OA/s640/blogger-image--541995431.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg2FIn8SvrjWfE4m_AnWAAD-AYP_s25saDiHwG7di7TKX3rT9EkxVnCtGnqAz67uEYdIrfThmcd-1fsVsf9iF992ZO1PcnZ8GX1UmmR9ax1m7-fL9zYewzdYBJVTHEnm_r5ggKNYe0A61OA/s640/blogger-image--541995431.jpg"></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><p></p><p>Then Samuel took a stone and set it between Mizpah and Shen, and named it Ebenezer, saying, "Thus far the Lord has helped us." (1 Samuel <a></a><a></a><a href="x-apple-data-detectors://0" x-apple-data-detectors="true" x-apple-data-detectors-type="calendar-event" x-apple-data-detectors-result="0">7:12</a> NASB)</p><p></p><div>
</div><p></p></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Today, I recognize the Ebenezer stones reminding me of how far God has brought me. Each milestone draws me closer and closer to Him and His loving spirit. It was two years ago that I was sitting alone in the doctors office getting the diagnosis that was meant to destroy me but God showed me that my help comes from Him. My journey may not be the same as other cancer survivors but God chose me for my journey for a purpose and I promised Him I would continue to faithfully serve Him! </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">I have become an advocate for Cervival Cancer because it has become the taboo cancer. Women we are more than our tatas. Fight for the proper tests when there appear to be a problem. Know your own body. Doctors can and will lead you astray in the name of helping you, insurance or not listening. Keep talking. Fight for your body! Your body thanks you! </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">To God be the Glory, for my survival and the survival of others! I pray for those still in the struggle that God comforts, protect, and heal, like only He can. Do not lose hope. God is able. Here is yet another reason why as I encourage you, I encourage myself. Be blessed. -rfwb</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Visit our ministry page at www.facebook.com/forhimministry. </div>RaleneCreateshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11797113556927389937noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5909383040098918349.post-63645630151261674142014-01-20T07:55:00.001-06:002014-01-20T07:55:58.687-06:00The Dream is for Real!<div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjFDAA4hMwCxyiwfWuQTG5OQjoe5xUSFdOaYPuparWIqRUnpF5fRMqiOREdBS03ZEr15gTAtusNtoUDVg5QHLNmIoObFwFsiOyONW_CoktfLTtnUE4XqpJkU4aU0Yk13zuUPc-Qb5TwXrpo/s640/blogger-image--1318119675.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjFDAA4hMwCxyiwfWuQTG5OQjoe5xUSFdOaYPuparWIqRUnpF5fRMqiOREdBS03ZEr15gTAtusNtoUDVg5QHLNmIoObFwFsiOyONW_CoktfLTtnUE4XqpJkU4aU0Yk13zuUPc-Qb5TwXrpo/s640/blogger-image--1318119675.jpg"></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">As we reflect on the birth, life and legacy of Dr. King, we are reminded of his dream which was universal for all men. There are many things we can ask ourselves to honor his memory. First and foremost, are we realizing our own dreams? God has planted in each of us dreams, visions, and aspirations, but we limit ourselves and God by saying we cannot reach our dreams due to lack of finances, or education. Secondly, what role are we playing, today, to love our neighbor as ourselves? Our neighbor is not only the person living next door or the one who looks like us, but our fellow man. Do we make assumptions about individuals because they look, talk, eat, or pray differently than us? If so, Dr. King's dream is in vain. It starts with us. Finally, are we taking that walk of faith despite seeing the whole staircase? This requires us to know that God is in control and has our best interest at heart! The dream is for all mankind. Realize your dream by keeping them alive inside of you! I am encouraged today as I encourage you. Be blessed! -rfwb</div>RaleneCreateshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11797113556927389937noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5909383040098918349.post-67700299228501801992014-01-20T07:29:00.001-06:002014-01-20T07:29:00.844-06:00When old Wounds are Reopened<div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjQ1VdBlw2_aIngM_IFvq8-Z-gF5eYkqjzwL5GeNjEHERCTd6Z5Li248Faee4yYX1HlOtuEPYRvl7Xqv1-nJO4iCMbxKjORof3hjfs28ia1X0slGdEUB4JN3ycL4eAw5ma0ODAkklVWB8VU/s640/blogger-image--1795232061.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjQ1VdBlw2_aIngM_IFvq8-Z-gF5eYkqjzwL5GeNjEHERCTd6Z5Li248Faee4yYX1HlOtuEPYRvl7Xqv1-nJO4iCMbxKjORof3hjfs28ia1X0slGdEUB4JN3ycL4eAw5ma0ODAkklVWB8VU/s640/blogger-image--1795232061.jpg"></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">In life, prayerfully we grow, mature, and heal daily especially when we have accepted Christ in our lives and He has begun a work in us. Circumstances beyond our control will happen that it feels like the scabs have been torn off the wounds so carefully covered that we began to question the healing process. Psalm 147:3 shows us, "<span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif; -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto;">He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." We can take solice in knowing that we did not, on our own, heal but God did the healing. Acknowledging this and accepting that everything He does is good, we can rejoice knowing we are healed despite temporary pain. Pain will come causing you to reflect, draw near to Him and build endurance but In His name He has declared healing for the brokenhearted. He did not place a bandage on your wounds, He bound them. We can rejoice. Experience the momentary pain and lean on God. This too shall pass. This is a day that I am truly encouraging myself as I encourage you! Pray for me as I pray for you! Be blessed! -rfwb</span></div><br>RaleneCreateshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11797113556927389937noreply@blogger.com0